You have struggled and found the best dating sites! You have even written a profile you are truly proud of and uploaded your favorite picture from that one time you went to the club…now what do you do! How do you initiate a great conversation to land that big date you have worked so hard for? How do you approach the women with out taking that slap in the face!
How do you find out if she is right for you? Maybe the church going type, or the honest and unspoiled down to earth girl you really imagined. Or if she is the dreaded “Spoiled rich girl” or the Money hungry good for nothing nightmare your mother told you about when you were 10! They definitely won’t come out and say it! So you will have to dig all by yourself! You should know what not to do in this situation as well as how to charm her when and if you decide to go ahead with it!
Well first off you should find out what she thinks of us. By asking a simple question “What do you think about men in general?” This question will bring out some true colors. She will talk and if you listen closely you will learn her views on men in general.
After you get that direct and honest question out of the way, you are in the acquaintance block. So how do you get out of this ask her the next question. Which will get all sorts of stuff to come out “What do you honestly think of online dating” even the stuff you probably didn’t want to hear! She will tell you her worst horror stories; she will tell you funny stuff that happened to her friends. If you listen to her I mean really listen you can hear her personality shine. Her attitude, her likes, and hatreds you can hear it all!
Now the all powerful and all mighty question…the icing on the cake “What was the reason for your last break-up” this question will quite possibly bring out the ogre in her. It might even cause her to go into a crying frenzy if it does…sneak off and never look back. If she blames him, you probably want to either as a few more questions like…what happened? If you hear the steam and hear a scream…run! However sometimes you might hear the right answer. “We just felt it was time to part ways…or it wasn’t really working for us. If you hear this you may have struck gold! But be careful because it too could be a trick. Listening to the women, and her personality, or moods can change how you move to the next level. It could also give you insight on how she really is and not how she wants you to see her. Always proceed with caution and never give them your personal information right away…I mean you never know how it might turn out…you wouldn’t want a stalker now would you?
